Death is inevitable. We will all go through that process where we will leave everything behind. We will eventually let go of all the material things and the necessities in our personal lives. All of us will experience that pain of being left behind by that important person in our lives. Whether we like it or not, we need to accept that all good things come to an end. Everything has its end and we need to be prepared for it. When things happen beyond our control, we can only do things that will make the situation better and easier to accept.
Every time our loved one would pass away and leave us wounded in this phase of our lives, it is very difficult to move forward and make ourselves strong again. We struggle to accept the immediate change of our routine. We find it hard to accept that things will never be the same again and we need to proceed with our every day fight without them. We will never be able to feel them and see them again but we can still do some things to act as if they are still here with us. Or maybe we can just have some important tokens or trinkets that will make us remember them all the time.
We can use our loved ones’ personal belongings like their accessories or their clothes to make us feel their presence again. Through this, we can feel their warmth and smell their essence despite their leaving. We may also keep things that they had given us like gifts and letters. These simple memories may be with us and we can experience that special bond with these deceased people in a short time. Simple but special valuables will be of great help as we strive to accept their death and learn how to smile once again. Aside from these trinkets and valuables, we can treasure a special urn that can contain our beloved’s ashes.
With the aid of cremation, we will be able to retain our bond with our departed loved one.
Unlike the traditional burial wherein we still need a casket and a cemetery to bring our deceased family or friend to peaceful place, we can already provide amity and happiness to our loved ones within our reach. Instead of visiting the dead in the cemetery just to talk to them and be able to visit them, we can just stay in our home and converse our loved one whenever we want to.
Through cremation, we are assured that the remains of our loved ones are always safe in our hands. If we wish to check on it, we will have that easy access to look at the remains of our loved ones with pure love in our eyes. We will not be experiencing any discomfort of being with the remains of a family member or a friend. Our bond with them, though not the same as it once were, will still be within the range of our presence.
With the ashes of our loved ones placed on an urn, the cremation process will make our relationship with them as close as we want it to be. Anywhere we go; we can bring the urn with us and be able to feel that our departed loved one is still with us. The urn may range from a simple design to a glamorous one depending on our preferences.
Just like the old days, our deceased loved one can still be in our homes and make us feel that they did not leave us.
They just changed into ashes and remained silent to become a great listener to us. Death is inevitable and we cannot do anything to stop it. All that we can do is be ready for it. Make the most of every day with our beloved people. And when things need to come to an end, we can just be open to changes and accept the things that happen in our lives.
It may not be the same as it were but we can make the most of what we can get. Cremation gives us an opportunity to experience a relationship with the deceased ones in a simple but precious way. Their flesh and heart may be already gone but the memories and the love that they shared with us will indeed linger forever. We can still keep a part of them in our lives and we can definitely do that with cremation.
Whether you are in need of traditional funeral options or cremation services, we can accommodate any need, and any budget.